{"id":23969,"date":"2019-01-23T13:50:14","date_gmt":"2019-01-23T13:50:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/adoption-2020.local\/ask-the-adoption-coach-working-with-multiple-agencies\/"},"modified":"2020-12-16T05:58:25","modified_gmt":"2020-12-16T13:58:25","slug":"ask-the-adoption-coach-working-with-multiple-agencies","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/adoptionnetwork.com\/ask-the-adoption-coach-working-with-multiple-agencies\/","title":{"rendered":"Ask the Adoption Coach: Working with Multiple Agencies"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"margin-top-md\" style=\"text-align: justify; margin-top: 25px !important;\">Reader:<span style=\"font-style: italic;\"> Do most people work with multiple agencies at the the same time?<\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"margin-top-md\" style=\"text-align: justify; margin-top: 25px !important;\">Adoption Coach:<br \/>Dear Reader:<\/div>\n<div class=\"margin-top-md\" style=\"text-align: justify; margin-top: 25px !important;\">Thank you for your question. You asked if \u201cmost\u201d people work with <a href=\"https:\/\/adoptionnetwork.com\/adoption-agencies\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">multiple agencies<\/a> at once. And the answer is that there really isn\u2019t much data to verify an answer.<\/div>\n<div class=\"margin-top-md\" style=\"text-align: justify; margin-top: 25px !important;\">First, some agencies do not allow prospective adoptive parents (PAPs) to use more than one agency. However, if it is allowed, the issue many run into is that doing so can be costly. Most agencies have application fees, their own requirements (which may cost adoptive families additional money), and \u201cget on the waiting list\u201d fees. Sometimes agencies have different requirements as far as adoptive parent profiles (if adopting domestically), requiring adoptive families to completely revise their original profile to fit the guidelines of the secondary agencies.<\/div>\n<div class=\"margin-top-md\" style=\"text-align: justify; margin-top: 25px !important;\">The main benefit to waiting with more than one agency is that the PAP has greater exposure, and, some believe, increasing their chances of a placement. However, waiting with more than one agency can be complicated. For one, each agency determines when (or if) they notify PAPs of profile showings or considerations. There\u2019s the risk that you would be selected by multiple social workers or expectant parents at one time. Depending on the agency you use and laws\/guidelines, you may not be able to accept more than one placement within a stipulated time period, leaving you to turn down one of the matches. Then you have to decide which match to turn down. And of course, a match isn\u2019t a guaranteed placement. Adoption, I should note, is risky no matter what, but working with multiple agencies can add additional risks and rewards.<\/div>\n<div class=\"margin-top-md\" style=\"text-align: justify; margin-top: 25px !important;\">Ultimately, I advise those seeking to adopt to carefully decide which agency (or agencies) to work with. There are many things to consider including: how biological parents and their rights are treated, fees, the staff at the agency (experience, reliability, education), the agency\u2019s policies, the state\u2019s laws, how adoptee are treated and supported, how adoptive parents are supported, how much education the agency provides for all triad members, post-placement support and education, and much more.<\/div>\n<div class=\"margin-top-md\" style=\"text-align: justify; margin-top: 25px !important;\">Make a list of questions, as well as a list of priorities and deal-breakers, before you begin contacting agencies. You will also want to browse the agency\u2019s website to get a sense of their philosophy, ethics, and attitudes toward triad members. And keep in mind that just because a website isn\u2019t pristine and flashy, it doesn\u2019t mean that the agency isn\u2019t worth considering. Some agencies are small and have very few spare dollars for marketing and advertising.<\/div>\n<div class=\"margin-top-md\" style=\"text-align: justify; margin-top: 25px !important;\">Working with more than one agency has its benefits; however, there are also some potential downfalls. Whatever adoption route you choose, and the number of agencies you work with, should be approached with education and discretion.<\/div>\n<div class=\"margin-top-md\" style=\"text-align: justify; margin-top: 25px !important;\">Best wishes on your adoption journey!<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Reader: Do most people work with multiple agencies at the the same time? Adoption Coach:Dear Reader: Thank you for your question. You asked if \u201cmost\u201d people work with multiple agencies at once. And the answer is that there really isn\u2019t much data to verify an answer. 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